Regardless Of Outcome, There Are No Wrong Decisions. Many of us
have a hard time making decisions. We fear that if we choose the
wrong partner, then we'll be stuck in an unhappy relationship. Or,
if we make the wrong financial decision, we'll make a bad
investment. Yet, there are no wrong decisions. Perhaps we could, at
times, make different choices regarding our relationships, personal
pursuits, careers, or the right color of paint we should buy for our
bedroom. Yet, regardless of the outcome, we always gain valuable
experience or insights from any choice we make. Making a decision is
always better than making no decision at all. At least we had the
courage to decide, take a chance, and make a move in a particular
direction. We can't take action unless we make a decision first.
And, a decision is never wrong because we always gain something from
it - whether we get what we thought we intended or learn a valuable
lesson. Sometimes, we need to follow through on a decision to
realize that we don't really want what we thought we did. For
instance, maybe you always wanted to live in a big city, so you
leave family, friends, and a secure job in a small town to move
across the country. However, once you get there, you find out that
you don't really like city life. You never could have known that
unless you tried it. So, you move back home, all the more
appreciative of small town living. Rather than constantly wondering
what else is out there, you are now able to fully embrace your
surroundings and the direction your life there is taking. Your
decision to move to the city did work out - just not in the way that
you envisioned. While our decisions may not always lead us to what
we thought we wanted, we always end up with what will ultimately
make us happiest. Being able to make decisions is one of life's
privileges. Exercise your right to fearlessly decide.
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